It’s funny how priorities seem to change as you age and as your income changes. Years ago, I never would have thought about paying for something I could do myself… nowadays though, that line isn’t always so clear. Time versus money is a topic that I think we’re all familiar with.
When you’re young and scrappy, you likely have a little more time on your hands and little less money. Eventually though, life catches up to you and things like a spouse, career, and maybe some kids tend to make time a little more valuable. Hopefully, your career starts to generate a little more income for you as well as you gain experience in whatever field you’re in.
When I was in college living in the dorms, I remember driving the front of my car right up onto the curb along a grass field in the parking lot and would change the oil there – no jack needed! Yeah, I’m pretty ingenious… or young and stupid! 🙂
I didn’t think anything about the time it took to do it. The cost of parts was next to nothing so it really just made sense.
Nowadays, I can easily get an oil change at NTB for $19.99 so there’s no way I’m wasting the time buying the oil and filter and spending the time needed to change my own oil. A lot of times, I’ll sit in the waiting room while the service is being done and get other things done that I feel warrant my time better… like this blog for instance.
The Window Disaster
I also remember moving into my first house I ever bought. I got it with the sole intention of living in it or a few years, fixing it up, and then turning it into a rental. Once I moved in, I quickly learned that my only problem with this plan was that I was not as good at fixing things as I thought. At the time, money was more important than time.
One time I replaced about 10 windows in the house. This was a big endeavor (for me at least), but I had a co-worker that came down and showed me how to do everything from measuring to helping me install the first one. Even after doing the first one, I was still pretty slow at the process of replacing them, but I eventually was getting them knocked out – about one every evening.
Then on the last evening, I pulled out the existing window and inserted the new one. Everything fit right, but I pulled it out of the opening and then put it back in anyway just to make sure… it fit like a champ. So I took it back out again, put the pink fiberglass insulation layer on top of the window, covered it with the topper, and then put a nice layer of silicone on the top of the topper.
Unfortunately, it suddenly didn’t fit in the opening anymore… it almost seemed too wide which was pretty weird. I pushed on it… nothing. I pulled the window back out and tried again… same thing. I was getting frustrated because I knew I had a limited amount of time before the silicone on top would cure. I started pushing harder on the window… nothing.
I gave the window frame a good pounding with my fist. This didn’t fix the problem… but something worse happened. The topper fell off in the process. In fact, it turned over as it fell and decided to land right on my head, silicone-side down.
So now I’m standing there with a window that won’t fit and silicone covering my head. It wasn’t a pretty sight.
Now time was really of the essence. I had to re-coat the topper with more silicone and start trying to fit the window again. All the while, I could feel the silicone getting sucked into my head. My nose was running and my eyes were burning enough that it was hard to see.
I messed with that stupid window and just couldn’t get it to fit. I then got mad (which I seem to get during every project) and started “tapping” the sides of the window frame with a hammer to fit it in the opening. Finally, after a good push and several love-taps with the hammer, the window went into place – and it didn’t break!
No time to celebrate though… all I could think about though was getting the silicone out of my hair. I ran into the bathroom and jumped into the shower. Here’s a tip for anyone who’s not a handyman or woman… silicone does not wash off with water. In fact, it starts to cure, or least it did in my case.
So I had to call a friend of mine who’s good at all this repair stuff and say “how do you get silicone out of your hair?” His response, of course, was “I don’t know, I’ve never applied it to my hair before.” Wonderful.
Eventually, I went down to the basement to the wash tub and poured paint thinner overhead. The good news is that the paint thinner got the silicone out of my hair pretty easily. The bad news is that my hair was unbelievably thin for a week after that incident. Lesson learned.
Cutting the Lawn and My Hair
I’ve talked about mowing my lawn… I hate it and it could be considered a great option to free up some time every week.
However, it does get me outside and it also gets me some needed exercise throughout the summer.
So, as much as I’m not thrilled doing it, it’s something where the time isn’t as important as the other benefits. And now, with winter upon us, I have the same fun with snow-blowing… stupid Ohio!!
On the other side of the spectrum, I’ve been cutting my own hair for a few years. In this case, it’s hardly a matter of time versus money. It’s free for me to do, I can cut it anytime I want, and it takes me less time to get it done (if you factor in the drive time to and fro).
Big shout out to my brother for seeing him cutting his own hair years ago and thinking “well, if he can do it, so can I!!”
Time Versus Money – Which is More Valuable?
Time versus money is one of those balancing acts that a lot of us face. My step-father has always struggled with this. He was raised to do everything… always. But he has a hard time trying to get everything done because there just aren’t enough hours in the day. And now, as he’s gotten older, it’s tough for him physically to do everything himself. But hiring out tasks that he knows he can handle himself is a real conflict for him.
I’m sure we’ve all had the idea of being filthy rich and not lifting another finger. But I’m not so sure that if that were to ever happen that I would just sit back completely. I feel like doing some of your own work provides you with an appreciation for the work, exercise in some cases, and it gives you a chance to continue to learn how to do new things. Although I would love to “outsource” a lot of the mundane tasks, I never want to get to the point where I stop learning and doing.
There are certain tasks that I think would be great to disappear – like cleaning the house. But for now, spending the money doesn’t make sense. Maybe one day if we’re well ahead of our plan, we’ll change that and hire a cleaning company to come in once every week or two just to handle the stuff we don’t enjoy doing. Who doesn’t love cleaning toilets?! 🙂
So there you go… when it comes to time versus money, it seems like time becomes a little more important as you get older and likely have a little more money. But that division between time and money can vary greatly with everyone.
I think overall I still tend to value money a little more than time, but I see that trend starting to shift as I continue to focus on things that I consider more important in life. Things like finding new real estate investments that give me a greater return on my money make more sense for my time. Although I’ve gotten better at home repairs than I used to be, I now have a handyman that I call in for some of the bigger jobs around the house.
How about you – do you tend to value time or money more?
Thanks for reading!!