Much of what I’ve read lately seems to revolve around the idea that if you’re not happy today, you won’t be happy once you reach FIRE (financial independence / retire early).
After all, happiness is more than just whether or not you’re stuck in the rat race. If you’re not content with your life now, how will quitting your job make any difference?
Hmm, yeah, I’m sorry… I’m not buying it.
Now before you jump to lashing out at me in the comments, give me an opportunity to explain.
I do think that you need to be somewhat happy with your life to begin with. If you’re just normally a miserable person, chances are you’re always going to be a miserable person… sorry!
However, if life is pretty good, but your job’s just getting in the way of life’s grand plan, then you’re probably in much better shape to have FIRE come to the rescue.
And in that instance, I believe it is possible to be raised to a whole different level of happiness once you leave your job.
Happy is as happy does
Let’s get this out of the way right now. If you’re not satisfied with your family and friends or the life you lead today, leaving your job isn’t going to be the fix-all in your life.
On top of that, early retirement is more of an opportunity to start or continue something you’ve got cooking up than it is an ending.
You might have heard the saying that “you need to retire to something” and I believe that’s wholeheartedly true. If you don’t have any hobbies or interests in life outside of your regular 9-5 job, retiring is likely the setup for a gloomy future.
Removing a rat-race job from your life isn’t going to be the Band-Aid of happiness. It’s not going to change who you are or what your interests and dislikes are. It’s also not going to melt away all your problems.
That said, there’s one thing I don’t think anyone can argue with:
FIRE = freedom and time
FIRE does provide you with more free time in your life. How you use that time is up to you. Trying to quit your job solely so you can stop life from being so hectic is actually a recipe for disaster. You’ll be bored out of your mind in no time.
In fact, I know a couple of people in life that have done the traditional retirement at 65, got bored within a couple months, and went back to work.
And that’s absolutely Ok. If you enjoy your job and that’s what you want to do, go for it.
But if you have other passions you want to pursue in life, FIRE can be very important. Obviously, if you’re not tied down to your job, you now have more time in your life to chase after those dreams.
I don’t believe FIRE is a solver of all problems, but I do think it can give you that edge of extra time in your life to concentrate on other things.
Therefore, if a lack of time is the biggest detractor of happiness in your life, there’s a good chance that FIRE can remedy that situation. And if that’s you, then reaching FIRE can bring along the missing puzzle piece of your life with it.
We’re closing in on FIRE fast. It’s very possible that I’ll be leaving my job earlier than the end of 2019 as planned. I’ll post about that little tidbit in the near future.
Regardless, FIRE is right around the corner and I’m not going to lie… I’m super excited. Moreover, things are going well for us as we reach the homestretch.
As I talked about in my three-year blog post, I’ve finally gotten over the compulsiveness of saving every penny. Our saving and investing runs are on autopilot. We’re currently at a 60% personal savings rate running just on my income, which I think is pretty darn good.
That leaves us the remainder of our money to use for paying bills and having fun. I feel like I lost my way somewhat a while back because my mind was consumed with saving all we could to reach retirement even faster.
But obviously, that’s a bad plan. You need to enjoy today as well – you never know if you won’t make it to tomorrow.
We’re spending more time together as a family and enjoying ourselves. We’ve already made a number of plans for this summer and fall including a number of tent camping trips, an amusement park trip for a couple days, a trip or two to Kelleys Island, and a Caribbean cruise.
In the meantime, we’re chugging along and brainstorming some of the planning and various nuances of our upcoming move to Panama.
I have only two complaints in life right now…
1) I don’t have enough time. When I’m doing something fun, my mind tends to wander and think about the other things I need to get done.
I’ve committed to writing one post a week on Route to Retire and, in three years, I haven’t missed one yet.
However, it’s a challenge to find the time to do it. A single post generally takes me between 6-8 hours to complete. That takes a good portion of my free time out of the mix right now.
And that doesn’t include the other projects I want to do. I have so many things on my to-do list that I know I don’t have time for right now. So in the meantime, I just try to sneak in a few minutes here or there working on them.
2) Work. I don’t hate my job… but I definitely don’t love it either. My biggest concern is that it gets in the way of doing things I’m truly passionate about.
I rarely have to work outside of normal business hours, which is such a blessing and not something everyone is lucky enough to say.
However, I’m still losing about 45 hours of my week every day to my job… plus another 3 ½ hours if you include the travel to and from the office. That’s 48.5 hours that disappear completely out of the 168 hours we all get in a week.
If you take into consideration that I need to sleep for 8 hours a day (I definitely need my beauty rest!), then I’m left with 63.5 hours in the week.
63.5 hours may not seem to be too horrible, but when you have a family along with other interests you want to pursue, that’s really not a lot of time.
Funny how my #2 complaint seems to loop around back to my #1 complaint, right?
My last piece of the happiness puzzle
I think anyone who knows me can tell you that I’m a laid-back guy. I really don’t take life too seriously. Everything’s a big joke to me and if it’s not, I’ll try to figure out a way to make it into something funny.
I like to laugh and just have fun.
But I’m frustrated. I’m not happy because I don’t have enough time right now and feel like I need to break-through into a world where I actually have more hours in the day.
My job has become such a burden on my time that it brings me down. Sure, I take it for what it is and still try to enjoy the time that I put in there. In all actuality though, it seems to be the only thing left keeping me from being more or less truly happy.
I’m greedy – I want more time to spend with my family. Time where I’m not thinking about how I’m going to squeeze in other projects later (like this blog). I want the time that the freedom of FIRE provides to pursue other passions.
I have a number of projects I want to do that I don’t have time for yet: writing a couple more books, learning some coding (I’m rusty) to develop a couple apps I have in mind, and maybe even starting a podcast.
I’m super excited to get to that point. I think FIRE can bring a better balance to our lives and with that help me close in on the one angle of my life causing a thorn in my side.
And I get it – there are plenty of people out there who will never be happy. They might think that leaving their job will fix all their other problems in life. It won’t. If you’re one of those people, you need to dig a little deeper and repair some of the other aspects of your life first.
But if you’re normally a happy guy or gal who loves life but just needs more hours in the day, I think FIRE can provide that piece of happiness.
Every early retiree I know in this community swears that they’re busier now than they were before, but it’s a different kind of busy… they’re doing the things they want to do. And that’s why FIRE can add that piece of happiness to your life!
Do you think FIRE can play a part in making you happy?
Thanks for reading!!